I remember when I was in my late twenties and my thirties were approaching. I was so worried about that, about getting older…
Poor little 29 year old me. I just want to go and give her a hug and tell her this:
Just start being you. You’re going to LOVE being you. And getting older is such a good, good gift.
I’m 43 today. Yes, 43. A number that would’ve made 29 year old me’s eyes bug out. I’ve seen Hurricane Isabel wreck my house, my sister nearly die from an infection after her first baby, the loss of an extremely close friend (all of those in three months), a divorce, the loss of two babies, the preemie baby/percreta drama of November 2012, the beginnings of international adoption and So Much Life and Love.
I’ve learned how to Be Still and Know. I’ve learned that the only thing that never changes is God. I’ve learned that life is so short. So short. And that every single day is a gift. I’ve learned that God made me to be this quirky weirdo that I am and that to try and be anything else is cheating myself and calling His creation not good enough.
I’ve learned to be thankful.
Yes, I am a thankful 43 year old this morning. Thankful for my beautiful family, for my favorite friends, for my church, for my heroes in the faith…I’m thankful that I am alive…because there was a day in November 2012 where I almost wasn’t. Thankful that I can lean on My Beloved, that Jesus is always near…
I feel this year coming. A year bursting with new things and changes and jubilee. I just feel it.
I will welcome my daughter Sylvie home while I’m 43. I will welcome my daughter’s wedding to God’s best for her while I’m 43. I will watch my kids and my nieces and nephew and all my other little loves grow and change while I’m 43. I will get better at marriage and home and living authentically in 43. I will draw and paint and Be Still and Know….I will sing. I will love my friends and family and do all I can to see needs and meet them.
I will weather the hard things because God walks with me.
I will rejoice in the great things because God walks with me.
What have you learned as you’ve grown older?